Survivor Message

After having an “ache” in my upper back that wouldn’t go away, I decided it was time to have it checked out. Cancer didn’t run in my family, so I wasn’t prepared for the phone call that changed the months to come. My doctor called and informed me that the x-ray showed a tumor. He was very positive and wanted me to follow up with a surgeon to have the upper left lobe removed immediately. In his opinion, there was no time to waste. My mind went blank! I only had a window of opportunity at that moment and thought, “What questions should I ask?” Feeling paralyzed, I just kept listening to him and his voice of reason.

My wife and I talked and prayed a lot for guidance. After the shock wore off, I realized how very much I wanted to continue with my life with her. We were strong people and had gone through other crises in life. We could do this, too. Also, it was important to me to show my children that when life’s path isn’t what we want, we face our challenges the best we can.

I felt good about my team of doctors and specialists. We started asking questions about what to expect with surgery and chemo and educating ourselves by reading pamphlets, books, searching the internet and talking to other cancer patients about their experiences. Having this information helped tremendously and didn’t leave me feeling like the “victim.” We knew that we wanted this to become a positive experience and to draw strength from it.

During chemo, I continued with my life as normal but paid attention to the times my body said to slow down. I listened and discussed with my oncologist any changes or concerns that I had. Constant communication was important. With the type of chemo I received, I did lose my hair, but not my spirit. I kept myself busy and in a regular routine. I followed my doctor’s orders and before I knew it chemo was over. I still have to follow-up with check-ups but that’s nothing in exchange for a second chance in life.

My life did change. It changed for the better. I appreciate life more than I ever did and understand that I must not take it for granted. Early detection is important. Listen to your body. To all that read this, find a doctor you have confidence in. Keep experiencing life.

Joe Y.
San Antonio, Texas